Alone, but not lonely

It has been some eight odd months since I've had a date. And, of course, I was the one who ended that relationship, so I suppose I can't complain about it much. He was an okay guy, but we didn't really fit well together on the really, really big points. We had lots in common, just not the stuff that makes for a long term relationship. So, with some fear of being alone again, I broke the relationship off to pursue a life that was balanced and healthier.

To be honest, there have been a few times when I have thought about calling him and meeting him for dinner. But wisdom (whatever misguided and mediocre amount I have been given) has always stopped me from doing it. Fortunately, we don't move in the same circles and there were few concrete remnants of the relationship. (No, girls, he never gave me any jewelry. . .and I threw away the card and stuffed animal from Valentine's day LOL!)

So, here it is. . .that time of year again. Valentine's Day is just around the corner, and I'm alone. And you know what? ! ? It's okay. Really, it is. I know that I may experience a moment of weakness as co-workers are getting roses and cards delivered, but I don't really need flowers or cards to make me feel good about myself.

And, I have been blessed with many wonderful friends, all across the country, and the world. Many of them are in similar positions as me, alone, but not lonely. This year, I am going to celebrate the love of my friends instead of dwelling on the lack of a romantic interest in my own life. And who knows, maybe this will be the best Valentine's day EVER!